A RULE-LORN LOVE

 A question to ponder 

Since we all are thoroughly
messed up human beings,
love is a perilous gamble.
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Some messes are more
likeable than others to a
particular mess and two
messes have very different
choice sets for the messes
they choose to mess with.
Messy!
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So how do you know which
mess to own?
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I think a mess that looks at
other messes in an unmessed
manner is the mess to go for.
Because sometimes when you
get cranky dealing with your
mess, this mess might still
look at you in daze and say,
"You are such a beautiful
mess."
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Two messes however similar
might also end up creating a
bigger mess - it's not
compatibility that works in
love.
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The best lovers
And the ones that love longest
Are not the compatibles that
click magically after a dozen
disappointing dates.
You know why?
Because the ones choosy
before love might also tend
to be the ones that won't
stop choosing after love.
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So miss mess,
If it all boils down to one
quality
Choose the courageous ones.
The ones that question
themselves more than they
question others.
The ones adamantly inclined
to be kind to one and all.
To big and small.
Equally as human and as
worthy of love and forgiveness
as they are.
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It's a fact, honey.
He's not to stay, if he can
find love in nothing but you.
As if this world is one unkind
thing that fucked him up
How narrow and small a
heart it must be that it can
be blind to the beauty of
anything except you
Bet my life
It is only inevitable that
you will be called unkind and
fuck him up too
So if you ask me how much
does he love you
I'll tell "as much as he loves
anyone else"
Because
So more as he can hate anyone,
that less shall he love you.
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